One of my friends made up that line. I hope she one day writes a book on it!
Basically what we mean by it is that often we, as girls, blame ourselves when our guys are in a bad mood. And worry about what we've done. How we can make him happy. Is the relationship going to be okay?
But we've finally come to the realisation: guys have hormones too, and there are other things that make them unhappy and grumpy in life. They can be grumpy, and it has nothing to do with us.
So when they're grumpy and we realise logically that we've done nothing wrong: we just leave them alone to get over their grumpiness and come back and love them the same as normal the next day.
Eff you today, Love you tomorrow.
Oh that is soooo true!!! a million times true in case of Nick, most of the time he's pretty good but some days you can just see the grumpyness radiating off him. 9/10 he apologises for being grumpy right before he goes to sleep. I have learnt not to probe to deep but to just go with the flow, seriously how many times does he have to put up with me when I'm grumpy (I'm very sure thats why more than he is) :)
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